01.辛桂英

“生命彩排”這一系列我已聽聞好久。星期四﹐妹妹突然打了個電話問我是否有興趣參加“生命彩排一” 。我想想就和大兒子一起報名參加。

  其實參加這課程最主要的目的是想讓孩子體會人生的過程﹐而不是為自己而上課﹐沒想到在短短的二天學習中﹐我發覺我的感應比孩子來得強。我認識了我自己在身為人兒女﹐人妻和人母的三重身份上到底處于何種處境﹖對我的父母﹐到底孝與順﹐我做到幾分﹖我時時發牛牌或羊牌﹖自己的強弱點認識有多深﹖面對生離死別﹐我又有何種心態﹖上完二天的課程﹐我可以給自己很肯定的答案。

從“人生劇變” 這一場表演﹐我驚覺原來助人家成夢想是件好快樂的事。

看著孩子投入的參與﹐提醒我﹐你的孩子長大了﹐往後不必再像嬰兒般的過於愛護。孩子已在學習中成長了﹐將來要出什麼牌就看他自己了﹐好好的彩排越精彩越好。

最後我感謝導師黃璿翰爵士﹐各位天使和各位同學。

謝謝你“生命彩排” 

學生辛桂英

        吉隆坡 2007年 8月26日凌晨      

國際第129大馬75屆

03.吳志峰

首先，我想向班上所有的同學说声抱歉，特别是天使與博士。经过了彩排，我发现了一样很奇怪的东西，那是在彩排的时候，我并没有什么感触，可是在第三天的最后一刻我竟然想哭，到今天為止还是會有說不出的感触，分辨不到。

       在彩排当天我说过彩排就像一出戏，而这是一出我们是有份演出的戏，可是如果没有感触就好像在看着一本哲学书。我依然还是认同這一點。至於我的感触是在彩排后才出现，這可能是我比较迟钝的緣故吧﹗

彩排里的“牛和羊“，能夠明白這所要帶出的意识。當中﹐有一點我不太认同的是﹐一开始的时后说是场比赛，而游戏规则是A和B组是不可以討论，我认为如果两组没有经过討论那怎么会有双赢呢?比如，在这社会上很多公司是做到双赢，可是它们在双赢之前经过了双方面的认同，才来合作，才可以达到双赢，我认为这是沟通方式的一種。游戏规则就好象社会原理，只有真正了解得越多的人才会更懂得怎样玩得更漂亮。

        谢谢彩排里所有的人，这次的彩排里我的确是学到很多东西，并不是我想象中那么少，而是很多很多，因为我已经开始察觉到新的感触和智慧。哈哈，我这个人真的比较迟钝。谢谢天使和博士。

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04. 陳鴻展

還沒來生命彩排的時候﹐我以為只要努力就可以實現我的夢想﹐但是我的想法錯了。努力不能代表一切也不可能會實現我的夢想。因為我忽略了很多東西﹐那只是單贏而已。

經過這次的生命彩排﹐使我體會了什麼是雙贏﹐怎樣才能做到雙贏。只要我們不斷的付出關心､愛心､孝順和準時､還有生命是多麼的寶貴,自己的生命重要﹐大家的生命也是重要。

這裡我要感謝黃教授給了我那麼寶貴的課程。改變了我的一生。還有我要感謝我的Buddy, 感謝她伴我一起走過這兩天的生命彩排。

鴻展上

26/ 08/ 07
　

05.吳志炎

親愛的博士﹕
今天是2007年8月25日﹐也是我在黃璿翰爵士高等學院上課的第二天。今天我在這兒學了很多的東西。在生命之船的游戲裡﹐雖然我不能搭上救生艇﹐可是我也為那些能搭上救生船的同伴開心。我也領悟到在我們的人生當中﹐會有許多突然發生的事情。這一分鐘﹐我們正高高興興的﹐卻不能意識到下一分鐘將會發生什麼事情。

到了晚上﹐我們有一場變裝比賽﹐我們會男變女裝､女變男裝得表演出自己致命的弱點。我的弱點就是三分鐘熱度。第二哥表演就是把我們自己以後想作的事業把它表演出來。我以後是想自己出來做老闆﹐開一間娛樂場所。這個想法也讓我得到了一個獎﹐那就是最有潛力的獎。明天我們會有一個畢業典禮﹐我希望我的家人能出席。

最後我很開心能到這兒上這個課程﹐如果還有機會﹐我希望能再上這個課程。這個課程對我來說是非常嚴重厲害的好。

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06.甘彩螢

Dear Dr. Erwin Ng

  I would like to take this opportunity with  sincere say “thank you”to Wendy and Edmund, because of giving me a chance to take part of this life rehearsal. I also want to say thank you to Dr. Erwin Ng, because he willing to share the wisdom and knowledge of the ages with us, through this opportunity, we can learn from him.

  Before joining this course, I wonder what is life rehearsal. Finally I know it. It is a course which let us learn how to face things that will happen and already happen.

  When sir explain to us about the story of goat and cow, I finally know myself is a cow more then a goat when I face my family and love. Now I realize what I suppose to be when facing with someone. Can’t always be cow, must turn to be goat once or twice.

  In my whole life I always face lot of problem or trouble in relationship between family, love, colleague and etc. After life rehearsal I hope I can manage it very well to be ware always argue with someone.

  When we rehearsal life boat exercise, I realize myself not enough confident. I hope after this rehearsal death and live I will be more confident and brave to do everything. I hope my dream can come true one day. But I still must hardworking in every situation. And always keep on remind myself to improve myself and upgrade myself.

  Once again I would like to say thank you to sir and every beloved students. Because it was a faith to gathered all people from other state or county. So we must appreciated each other that when we still together to share our moment. This is a great experience in my life, not everyone have a chance to rehearsal life. I hope this course can frequently more then twice a year because can let others people got a chance to attend this course.

Your faithfully,

Joann Kam Choy Ying

07.楊彩娥

Dear Sir Erwin Ng

I am very grateful that I am able to attend this course 《生命彩排》, because I had learnt a lot from this course. I learnt to treasure the people around me, my love ones and thing that may happen anytime and anywhere. Life is very fragile and we all should treasure our life dearly. Everybody should always forgive for their own survival and that we should not waste our lives. We should live everyday to the fullest and we should always have a goal in life.

I also learnt that we should always be filial to our parents. We can be here today because of our parents care and concern over the years. So we should repay them in whatever way we can. We should always love our parents and apologize to them when we are wrong, as if anything happens to them and we may not have the chance to apologize to them again and seek for their forgiveness.

I also try not to be late from today onwards as I understand the seriousness of being late and it may even cause a life. If your wrong doing leads to peoples death, we will live in remorse and guilty forever, and this will always be a burden, not inside your heart. We should always own up to our mistakes and stop finding excuses to cover up for our mistakes. This is an important lesson as we should always bear in our heart that excuses do not make up for your mistake but encouraging you to repeat the mistake once more as you re forgive too easily for an excuse that you made up. Whatever reason it is we should always remember that it is our fault and not others, with a little effort the mistake can be avoided.     

 12975 楊彩娥

08.鄭伊琪

致﹕ 黃璿翰爵士

  黃璿翰爵士您好﹗我是鄭伊琪。很慶幸自己參加了這次的生命彩排。在這裡我學到及得到了很多。

  有些事我自己本身是知道的﹐但一直以來我都在逃避﹐不敢去面對。害怕看見醜惡的自己。

  可是這兩天裡﹐您不斷的把我帶入自己的內心深處﹐讓我無法逃避的看見了自己最醜惡的一面。

  是您讓我更了解我自己﹐是您讓我在兩天裡體會到我生命裡所會面臨的一切。讓我彩排了一次生離死別﹐使我更深的體會到愛要及時﹐不要等到沒有機會了才來後悔。

  生命彩排真的很重要﹐希望生命彩排可以一直繼續下去﹐讓更多的人為他們的生命做一次彩排。

  最後我要感謝黃爵士讓我有機會為自己的生命彩排一次。也要很感謝我的生命天使﹐是他把我帶來這裡的。

12975鄭伊琪

2007年8月25日