01. 張金柳

致﹕黃雅烈博士

        我是在與朋友交談時﹐獲知有“生命彩排” 這課程在市場上。開始一切都不知道其內容是包括什麼﹐在考慮了幾天後才致電到貴學院詢問關於生命彩排同時上網找資料﹐多了解此課程。但卻還是無法獲得此神秘答案。

        後來得知﹐此活動能改變人生的一切﹐市上真的有此項目嗎﹖本以為報名2位給孩子參加以便能改變他們人生的前途及引導他們入正途﹐結果我本人也參與也參與由於學費貴及不知項目內容﹐還是由Muar帶了2位孩子來參與此活動。

        經第一､第二天的實際活動﹐使我覺得此活動找有問題孩子及叛逆孩子﹐如果他們能投入了解及體會活動意義﹐是有所幫助。

        希望我孩子有所收穫﹐借此改變他們未參加此課程之前有的一些習慣﹐為自己的人生目標邁向前進﹐對我而言﹐並非馬上能夠看到效果但願有來日一天。

        張金柳

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02. 吳翠萍

致敬愛的黃教授﹐

        感到很開心﹐有幸聽到您的講座會﹐我要感謝我的介紹人(Mr. Tan) 給我這個機會來上了一堂寶貴的課。

        還未來上課時﹐聽我之前來上過課的同事說﹐上完這個課程之後﹐改變很多﹐當我擁有這個機會時﹐我一定要上生命彩排這一堂課。

        這兩天上的課﹐讓我感觸很多。人生真的像一齣戲﹐從我們出世到慢慢走到今天﹐在這個過程中﹐經過了很多不同樣的路﹐有快樂､有傷心､有開心的…這條成長的路﹐我真的走到很輕鬆﹐是因為父母給我的關懷､包容及鼓勵﹐讓我感覺到父母的偉大。

        在課程裡﹐我學到改變､選擇､感恩和孝順。我覺得改變是馬上做到的﹐不要等別人來改變﹐當我們選擇好一樣事情的時候﹐一定得做長遠計劃﹐才能達到要得結果﹐感恩是要感謝在我身邊一路幫我的人﹐我真的要感謝我的父母帶我來到這個世界上﹐真的沒有一絲後悔做他們的女兒。感謝我的上司May Poh給我很多鼓勵和支持﹐在我的工作上﹐感謝我的一班同事在我身旁支持及鼓勵我。孝順…對于父母的恩﹐我真的要好好的計劃要怎樣去回報﹐每個月我都會給父母錢﹐卻沒時間陪他們﹐他們也不會快樂。每當我看到哥哥和姐姐帶父母去旅行的時候﹐我會對自己說﹐下一次的旅行由我帶他們去﹐每一次都落空﹐感到很傷心。經過這次的彩排我真的要好好準備和計劃帶他們去旅行﹐我對他們的承諾一定要實現。

        人生的路程不是由別人來掌控的﹐我一定要好好掌控我的人生。

        再次多謝黃教授的教導。

        吳翠萍

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Dear Dr Ng,

        I have learn and experienced a lot of things which I took for granted during the pact 2 days of your seminar.

        I have learn that giving is not absolutely right at all times and taking at all times is also not right. I have learn to appreciate more at my parents, wife and family sacrifice and to put more time (quality) time to spent with them.

        We must explore our weaknesses and our strength and put to good use of it. Always be positive, never be afraid of failure and be awake of our surrounding. Learn to be compasionate, others feeling and always reflect back your actions. Learn to do more for others, love yourself more cherish your parents, your family, your friends and most of all yourself.

        Never expect and rewards for your actions if you are smoke.

        Learn to love yourself before you can learn to love others. Lastly always remember our responsibility, our aim and also our humatanian values and you will live truthful life.

Faizal

        Before firtst of all, many thanks for this LR training. When I know I had been selected by company to join this training. I was happy. Due to my determination of joining this training I had reschedule my business trip plan. In order to attend this training. I had heard a lot of this, training from my follow colleague.Therefore, I very

Atcipating to experience the traning and try to expose and learn for the course, I had join this training with an anticipating heart. This is the feeling of me before joining the program.

        As for 2 days of this training, 1^st day it make me realise how many person and I﹐how much time I had plan for life. I never thaught that it makes me feel that I am stuggling in this life by myself and my life had so meaningless. There is no directions of my life. At the current moment, I am just concentrating on work and then is just few things I had done for my life.

        I only had think of my carrier and do not know how important is families. This unconditional loving, caring and support which I had neglect I do not which my life become so meaningless although I had carrier but without families. It will mean nothing to me. Families is part of my life which always be there.

        In this training, I learn how to show out my feelings. I seldom share and voice out my feelings. But this training, I can share out my feelings and thoughts without any hesitations to a stranger that I just know and why cant to my families.

        Life is too short, we cannot always fill ourselves that there is tomorrow. Is not up to as decide when to do things. Treasure is another words that I had learned. To treasure everything around us, families, colleagues, friends.

        Expectations life is just adventurous. Joy and sadness can come to as at anytime in life.

        Day by day pass easily but it might one of those day will be last and through out my life, when I had time to plan and make some effort but I did not it will be a big regret of my life.

        Returns, I had take so many cow card from the person I love and care, but I always had only holding goat card. I must learn to give more instead of taking too much.

        Life is just a stage theatre. I am the director of the movie and scriptwriter of the movie. I should not let other script write my life.

        My destiny is justified by myself and not by others.

        Goal of life, are we really had set a goal of life. After yesterday when I heard of everyone goal when they are young and now their current it seems to me people had forgotten this goal ad doubtful with their own decision of goal.

        Is it really our goal is control by others and the environments or we had not enough determinations to achieve the goal.

        In the stage play, I can see in every individual they can play different role, which follow the script. Human being is born to have different characters in daily life.

        Late, if people had not strong discipline, they will be late for everything. People had not aware of how the seriousness of lateness and consequences of ex. Human have to taken things and matters easily.

        Conclusions, I had learn much of know to achieve understanding, determinations, awareness and sharing. I will use all this as my guideline of my life and make my life more meaningful without regret of anything.

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致﹕親愛的黃雅烈博士

        首先我要謝謝您這三天所教我的人生道理。

        在我還沒有去上這個課之前﹐我是一個非常固執的人﹐然後我也不懂得去付出也不懂得去體諒別人的感受和去孝順父母。但是﹐自從來上您的生命彩排後﹐我學會怎樣去為別人付出﹐怎樣去體諒別人的感受和孝順父母。

我以後也會去試著出牛牌給別人﹐儘量不要再出羊牌了。因為我希望我這樣做能使那些喜歡出羊牌的人改變﹐出牛牌。本來﹐我是很討厭我的父母﹐因為我總是覺得他們不疼愛我﹐比較疼愛我的哥哥和弟弟。可是﹐我現在聽博士您所說過的那一番話以後﹐我就開始反省了﹐才覺得原來我的父母為我付出的是那麼那麼的多﹐而我卻沒有為他們付出過夜沒有孝順過他們﹐整只會跟他們吵架﹐還經常和他們唱反調﹐做一些令他們傷心的事﹕抽煙､打架､逃學等等。可是﹐我現在已經後悔了﹐我真的後悔了﹐後悔為什么當初會做這樣多的事讓他們傷心﹐所以我從今天開始會好好的讀書不要讓他們為我擔心､難過。

當然我在這裡所學到的東西不只是這樣罷了﹐我不懂得去將您所教的寫出來﹐因為我是一個不懂得去表達的人﹐我也要感謝介紹我來上次課程的人﹐讓我在這裡找到了我自己和認識了很多很多的朋友。和一位非常可愛的同伴還有可愛的天使。我在這裡過得非常開心﹐雖然只是短短的三天罷了﹐但我非常珍惜在這裡的每一分每一妙。很快的這三天就要過了﹐有一點不捨得和不捨得這裡的朋友､同伴和天使。我要感謝我的同伴這樣的信任我﹐把她不開心的事與我分享。每當她談到她傷心事的時候﹐我都會想要陪她一起哭﹐可是不曉得我眼淚的神經線是否壞了﹐我沒有哭。而我這裡希望她能夠得到全世界最完美的幸福﹐我更要向她說生抱歉﹐因為每次都是她和我的小組在跟我分享他們所學到和不開心的事﹐而我卻什麼也沒與他們分享﹐所以請她和我的小組成員能夠原諒我﹐因為我屬于不太喜歡跟任何人講我不開心的事或什麼的﹐然後我也不懂得跟人溝通﹐所以我要在這裡跟她和我的小組說一聲 對不起﹗

我也希望博士您可以繼續1您的生命彩排﹐讓更多的人學習要怎樣去感恩､孝順父母和對別人付出等等。當然我也希望有機會再來上博士您的生命彩排。

最後我要感謝博士你給我的開導﹐如果日後我真的成為一位真正的廚師﹐我一定要請您到我的餐館吃我為您特別而做的美味佳餚﹐可是您放心﹐保證您吃了一定不會食物中毒。嘻嘻… . 而且那些佳餚都一定是非常嚴重厲害的好吃。記得不要把您的電話號碼給換掉唷﹐沒有您以後就不能吃到非常嚴重厲害好吃的佳餚。謝謝您博士﹐當然還有可愛的天使﹐謝謝你們﹗

喬鴻

致﹕生命彩排教授

        由于我曾上生命彩排2﹐ 這令我期待生命彩排1。當我初次發現我的生命彩排1課程被取消時﹐我感到很失望。我感覺到我失去了一個體驗生命種種的一個好機會。總算皇天不負有心人﹐我最終還是有福氣參與生命彩排1。

        這一次的生命彩排非常的感觸。它的進行式是非一般的教學法。我個人非常喜歡生活化﹐屬于實習化的課程。在課堂裡﹐那靜靜躺在骨子裡的情感隨著彩排課程波涌而上。很多時候我們不會去體會﹐思考以及想象到在我們生命裡有可能發生的悲劇､挫折與不愉快。記記當事情發生後﹐我們才深深的體會到那種痛苦﹐然後後悔已經太遲了。我們都可能會錯過了亡羊補牢的機會。幸運的我在課程裡學到了不少寶貴的知識遲嚀將發揮于我們的生活種種。課堂裡的悲劇是一個排練﹐我們錯過了將會有機會再來﹐因為這是我們的生命彩排。通過這個課程﹐我學會了珍惜生命﹐珍惜身邊的人與人一切一切﹐我還要在我還來得及的時候﹐付出更多﹐報恩于每一位有恩于我的人。只有懂得知恩､感恩､和報恩﹐我們才會有福氣﹐好的事情才會發生在我們的身上。

        此外我也學會了體諒別人和愛惜自己的生命。要愛人就先要愛自己。我們決定活下去時﹐就一定要活得像個人﹐真真正正的一個人。

        我體會到了施比受更有福的道理。牛羊牌的游戲令人感到慚愧。我是一個常牛牌卻只打羊牌的人呢﹗對于父母﹐我也慚愧的感到我付出得太少。

        就是因為這兩天的課程﹐我看到了我自己醜陋的個性､價值觀。我要謝謝博士﹐謝謝您的教導､謝謝您的啟發。您讓我下定決心在有生之年都要以正確的心態去為人處事。生命彩排是非常了不起的。上天對我不薄﹐讓我遇到了我生命的恩師﹐讓我能于博士身上獲得啟發﹐這是我幾生修來的福氣。

        謝謝您﹐博士。

                                                  徐雪清

Dear Dr. AC Ng

        Good morning have and would like to thanks for your sharing in last 2 days. Hereby and would like to share how much and had learn in the point form as below.

        Before and always as at and wrote this letter I still though I had do so much for my family and company, in actual faet I did spend whole my day time to this 2 sector automatically this reflect in my mind (what I taugh) come to the state I feel very mislead and ask myself is it the remaining of my life time have to continue as this routine? What ever and had done learn especially procrastinating until problem happen then solve and many more thing happen without very clear mind and that’s what my pass choice and I have paid for it all the sadness and happiness. That’s not right or wrong in my choice.

After- I have learn from Dr. very much value to me – born my new life from today on words I will apply those point been hightlight with preoffesion explaination from Dr to readjust to my new life, I do understand I can do it with much more satisfy in return compare to previous achieve after this training I will practice sharing, choice, change after this matter before happen this will creat win win situation for both party. In terms of repay our respect to our family and boses and person support me, I will no more delay the action it will cause death. Especially towards my parents and family. I will fulfill whatever I can to my parents wish spend much time and care.

Recommend- I will recommend to those I knew and part of helping the sociaty in more positive before too late.

Lastly, I appreciate there 2 days sharing from Dr. I understood action on what I had learn are most important to lead me success.

Yours student,

Jason Neo

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致﹕ 我最敬愛的黃雅烈博士

        在我還沒有來之前﹐介紹人就告訴我說﹕“博士是一位偉大的博士﹐非常嚴重厲害的頂尖博士。” 我聽了之後﹐心理就在想世界上真的有這麼嚴重厲害的一個人嗎﹖忽然間﹐我心裡頭有了一股衝動想馬上去見這位人見人愛非常出名的博士到底是怎樣能夠使到每一個人都這麼的敬愛他﹐崇拜他﹗終于﹐我來到了黃雅烈博士高等學院府上。在踏進門之前﹐我抬頭一看﹐刊登了多麼龐大雄偉壯觀的建築物﹐就能夠想像黃博士是以為非常嚴重厲害不簡單的一名人士﹐不可小看。

        上課時間到﹐我終於看到了黃博士的廬山真面目真的是一副帶著慈祥和充滿陽光的臉孔。第一堂課時教導我們如何去相信自己和別人。博士幫我們分配了各自的buddy。在這整個課程中buddy扮演了一個很重要的角色﹐如果沒有buddy就沒有人與我們分享心裡所想的。博士說﹕“能夠相信對方就表示能夠相信自己﹐能夠與對方分享我們的喜怒哀樂﹐接著大家分享的就是做了一些事情讓對方感覺到很傷心也讓自己很後悔的事情。我從小就是由我婆婆帶大﹐她把我最大的期望寄託在我身上﹐可是﹐她想也沒有想到我竟然考不上大學﹐讓他失望﹗我的理想是當一名出色的律師﹐但是我的夢想破碎了﹐我決定放棄﹐我的目標離我而去。但是﹐今天我來到了生命彩排中發現我可以完成自己的目標讓大家再次為我充滿希望。”

俗語說﹕“失敗是成果之母” ﹐失敗了並不代表我們永遠都會失敗﹐有了一次､兩次､三次的失敗我們一定會再努力做到成功﹐不讓自己失敗。

        博士讓我們玩了一場游戲 - 牛牌和羊牌﹐起初我根本不明白博士在說什麼﹐可是﹐大家玩了非常高興刺激。當成績出爐了A組拿了 - 30分 B組拿了-3分。大家為了贏﹐不願輸就抱著失去理智和冷靜的心態去玩這場游戲﹐所以導致雙雙落敗。我們的父母不斷的出牛牌給我們就算他們在怎麼傷心﹐難過還是會出牛牌﹐但是﹐我們卻沒有體會到父母的感受拼命的出羊牌。其實﹐出牛牌的人不斷的付出他們的收穫將會很多。相反的的出羊牌的人﹐不斷的拿他們的付出將會是﹐一百倍､一千倍甚至更高。

        孝順 - 我和父母分隔兩地我在Johor他們在KL所以我不能好好的孝順他們報答他們帶我來到了這個充滿人情﹐溫暖的世界。我不能孝順父母親﹐但是﹐我有一個非常疼愛我的婆婆 - 江雪妃女士。從我出世的那一天﹐她就每天幫我洗澡﹐哄我睡覺甚至我做其它的事情。我非常感謝我婆婆對我付出的愛和關懷。我現在長大了﹐我慢慢的出牛牌報答我婆婆對我付出的養育之恩。博士說得對﹐卻在不報答﹐慢慢的等待有一天我們會在一瞬間失去一切﹐到時候真的來不及了﹐這會使我們痛苦一生一世終生遺憾。

        到了晚上﹐大家一起在非常開心的情況下跟著音樂､歡樂了起來。不只是我們在歡樂﹐就連天使們和博士也high了起來﹐斯斯文文的博士看不出來原來他是一位Disco Kaki﹐不管怎樣我們大家都玩得很開心﹐就這樣一天的時間就過去了。

        第二天早上﹐有很多人因為睡不醒害到自己的buddy被罰連我們也一樣跟#他們一起同病相憐﹐遲到是每個人都會有的習慣﹐但是人們就因為遲到總愛著借口､理由。博士說得對有華人的地方就一定會有遲到這兩個字。大家都說﹕“遲到好過沒到。”但是如果大家非常嚴重的看待這句話遲到跟沒到有什麼分別呢﹖遲到一秒﹐一分鐘也好這將會是事實不能改變﹐時間也不可能倒流讓我們重新來過。所以我們大家要珍惜時間養成準時的觀念一起把遲到這兩個字消失在世界上。今天晚上的表演我很滿意就因為有了這個表演我們大家才能夠互相幫助､合作配合。也更加了解到自己和朋友的強弱點在哪裡。

        最後﹐我要感謝上天的安排讓我有機會參加生命彩排的課程。博士就好像是上帝派下來的觀世音菩薩造福人群﹗我的分享完畢﹐謝謝﹗謝謝博士﹗謝謝天使們﹗

韋晶嬪

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        意外的接觸到生命彩排這個精彩的課程﹐感謝我的叔叔和嬸嬸的安排和鼓勵﹐感謝我的父母親讓我有這個福氣來參加這個難得的課程。

        在這幾天裡﹐每天都有新的震撼﹐新的驚喜﹗也有很多令我感動的地方。真的很感謝教授的付出﹐他的付出改變了我們所有的人﹐讓我了解到生命是多麼的重要､多麼的可貴﹐也要感謝教授讓我多了一位知己﹐也就是我的buddy﹐感謝她出現在我的生命中。

        在這裡﹐我還學會了分享。體會到分享的快樂是雙倍的﹗時間﹐是不會等人的﹗所以我要把握現在﹐把自己想講的話﹐想做的事情都馬上做完﹐絕對不要留下遺憾﹗感謝老師讓我知道這些﹐我從來都不敢也不曾表達過我的想法﹐我的愛﹗我總是以為父母一定會知道我愛他們﹐從小到現在都一直吝嗇與說一些體貼的話﹐更不用說﹕“我愛你” 這三個字。現在我很想要給他們一個大大的擁抱﹐告訴他們﹐我愛他們﹗

        感謝博士､感謝協理､感謝天使､感謝你們的付出﹗感謝您們的照顧､教導﹗衷心的感謝你們.. . 我還要感謝所有的夥伴們﹐感謝你們讓我全身充滿愛﹗謝謝你們﹐我愛你們﹗